A little about you.
Share the life you have, the relationship you want and the things you’re still figuring out. Skip optional details whenever you prefer.
What you want. What you bring.
A clearer picture of who could fit the life you want.
Talk through your story with AI. Leave with a personal relationship reflection, practical next steps and an optional illustrated partner portrait.
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AN IMAGINED POSSIBILITYMAYA’S DATING MIRROR
A fictional example, inspired by stated preferences.
An illustration, never a prediction.
MORE THAN A CHECKLIST
Sometimes what you need isn’t another dating rule. It’s a little room to look at your hopes, your experiences and the choices in front of you.
Share the life you have, the relationship you want and the things you’re still figuring out. Skip optional details whenever you prefer.
Talk it through with an AI reflection guide. Bring a question, a recent experience or someone on your mind. Review your details before your report.
Your needs, possible partner fit and tradeoffs, brought together with next steps, a transparent rule-based view and an optional fictional portrait.
Your report brings the pieces together: what you’ve told us, what remains uncertain, and what you could explore next.
Read the sample report“I can be flexible on job title and height. I cannot accept repeated cancelled plans.”
Separate what happened from what you’re hoping it means.
A FEW THINGS TO KNOW
This first version is designed for adult women reflecting on relationships with men. You can be single, dating, in a relationship or reconsidering an existing relationship. It is a reflection tool, not a matchmaking service.
No. The numerical rules come from the original mini-program and are product-defined, not validated for Western dating. The report combines your confirmed information, transparent calculations and AI-written reflections. It does not rank your worth or predict who will choose you.
Your report includes a written portrait brief. You can choose to generate an illustration with OpenAI after creating your report. It is a fictional adult inspired by your stated preferences, never a prediction or an image of a real match. No uploaded photo is needed.
Your draft and report are saved in this browser for up to 30 days. When you use AI, the information needed for that request is sent through our server to OpenAI. Photos are optional and are never used to generate a partner face. Read our privacy page before sharing sensitive details.
This release is free. You can fill in your profile without an account. A ChatGPT sign-in is required for AI access, with a daily allowance to protect the service. No payment card is required.
A thoughtful place to start. No perfect answers needed.